This question is one of the most frequently asked questions by urban smokers on Google and forums like Quora. Google answers back with lot of rich experiences from ex-smokers; products that can help quit or websites that help you plan your quit journey. In this blog I’m going to narrate a practical experience from a friend who quit successfully by self. This is my gift to all the tobacco users on this World’s No Tobacco Day to start practicing the tips below with immediate effect.
Last week I met an old friend of mine, named Raj (name changed), a chain smoker for 11 years, and I was astounded to see him not smoking! I could see the transformation in him when he decided to quit and adapt a healthy living for himself. He had experienced a stroke, anxiety and breathlessness because of smoking. He had grown obese and lazy and was failing badly at his work and family life.
It was good for him to realize in time and take steps towards becoming healthy. I’m writing his story because he practiced the 4D strategy (Delay, Drink Water, Distract and Deep Breathe) of quitting and stopped smoking within a year without even realizing that he was practicing the 4D technique! He did not undergo any intervention or seek physician’s help. It was his strong willpower and self-determination to become healthy which led to his transformation. This blog describes his effort in detail and I hope you can find some tips to quitting by self.
Change Brand and Flavour
Switch to new brand and flavour every time you buy a cigarette. Raj used to buy a different flavour of different brand every time he went for a smoke. He said that his sense of taste and smell for his favourite was fading over a period of time and his cravings to smoke were reducing. This happened in about 3-4 months of his quitting smoking. His urge reduced by 80%.
Take a Small Puff
Raj used to throw his cigarette after taking a couple of puffs. Similar process was practiced by late CM Shri Biju Pattnaik of Odisha. He used to smoke a puff and cut off the cigarette from the butt. This satiates the cravings and helps to manage the withdrawal symptoms. This way the “need to smoke” is satisfied and the body is not harmed too much. Slowly the urges become manageable and are easy to control. Let me also mention that after the puff was thrown away, Raj used to take a walk to DISTRACT himself from the thought of smoking the full cigarette.
Delaying the Urge and Drinking Water
Raj used to smoke as soon as he used to wake up. So, he changed his habit to having 4 glasses of water every morning after waking up. He then used to walk down to a distant kirana store for a cigarette. He used to climb down the stairs from the 3rd floor of his apartment and walked on foot to buy a different brand for smoking.
For the first few days, it was very tough for him to drink water. He wanted to smoke first. He also bought cigarette from the nearest kirana store. However, over a few months, he started having 2-3 glasses of water daily with practice and was finding it tedious and difficult to go to a kirana store to buy cigarette every time. This made him procrastinate buying cigarette every morning and a major factor that changed his habit of smoking in the morning forever.
This is a wonderful way of delaying the urge and getting into the habit of procrastinating smoking by making it very tiresome and tedious.
Buy Less
Buying 1-2 sticks instead of a pack will have a very strong impact and help you quit faster. When you have limited sticks you tend to smoke either when desperately required or you make the process of smoking tedious, tiresome and time consuming– first buying cigarette every time when you want to smoke and then smoking! With the latter, you delay the urge to smoke and that’s how the tendency to smoke lessens. If you have a pack, you tend to smoke whenever you please and it will not help in quitting.
So the crux is that you keep changing brands and flavours till you lose the sense of smell and taste for smoking your favourite brand; buy only 1-2 sticks; delay urge by buying cigarette every time; you cut off the butt after 2 puffs; drink water and deep breathe to relax. Distract yourself from thoughts like completing the full cigarette by either walking or making your environment tough so that you start procrastinating buying a cigarette to smoke.
Raj started exercising and running regularly. This way he turned himself into a fit, handsome and active man. It has been 5-years now that Raj is a successful ex-smoker. He has not experienced any relapse and I’m sure he will not give into smoking anymore.
All these will practically help you to quit over a period of 6-10 months. However, to be successful in quitting, you must ensure that you need to have self-confidence and determination to quit!
Raj not only quit smoking but also helped his various friends to quit smoking by the same method. I hope help you too. If you fail to quit by yourself, do not take medications by self. Ensure that you consult a doctor before you use any kind of Nicotine Replacement Therapy.
Post your experiences and stories of quitting in the comment box below. I would love to learn more from your experiences.